Thursday, May 26, 2011

DEDICATED TO PLAY

"MY CONNECTIONS TO PLAY"

I SELECTED THESE TWO QUOTES THAT I FEEL SUMMAIZE WHAT PLAY REPRESENTED FOR ME IN CHILDHOOD.
"I WILL NOT PLAY TUG O'WAR.  I'D RATHER PLAY HUG O' WAR.  WHERE EVERYONE HUGS INSTEAD OF TUGS.  WHERE EVERYONE GIGGLES AND ROLLS ON THE RUG.  WHERE EVERYONE KISSES, AND EVERYONE GRINS, AND EVERYONE CUDDLES, AND EVERYONE WINS." 
~ Shel Silverstein

"WE WORRY ABOUT WHAT A CHILD WILL BECOME TOMORROW, YET WE FORGET THAT HE IS SOMEONE TODAY. ~ Stacia Tausher

HERE ARE TWO TO THREE PICTURES OF ESSENTIAL PLAY ITEMS FOR ME WHEN I WAS YOUNGER.
1.  I PLAYED HOUSE A LOT WHEN I WAS GROWING UP.  THE ITEMS THAT I USED A LOT WERE DISHES, BROOM, MOP AND BABY DOLLS.  EVERY HOUSE I WENT OVER WITH MY MOM I CLEANED THEIR HOUSE.  MY MOTHER USE TO TELL PEOPLE "AUDREY WANTS TO BE A MOMMY WHEN SHE GROWS UP."

MY DADDY SUPPORTED PLAY WHEN I WAS YOUNGER.  HE WOULD OFTEN CHASE MY SISTER AND ME ROUND THE HOUSE AND SAY HE WAS THE VAMPIRE OF WHATEVER YEAR IT WAS AND THE ONLY WAY FOR HIM TO LET YOU GO AND NOT BITE YOU WAS, YOU HAD TO SAY YOU WANTED A TRUCE.  THEN HE WOULD ALLOW US TO RUN AFTER HIM AND BE THE VAMPIRE AND WE COULD DO THE SAME THING TO HIM.  HE WOULD ALSO PLAY HIDE-AND SEEK WITH US AND BE THE PERSON WHO COUNTS AND TRY TO FIND YOU.

I BELIEVE PLAY TODAY IS SIMILAR BY CHILDREN BE CREATIVE AT YOUNG AGES ONLY. CHILDREN ARE DIFFERENT WHEN I WAS ENGAGING IN PLAY.  SEEMS LIKE IT CHANGED WHEN CHILDREN START TO CHANGE WHEN THEY ARE SCHOOL AGE.  WHEN I WAS A CHILD WE CREATED OUR OWN GAMES.  TODAY WITH OLDER CHILDREN VIDEO GAMES AND CELL PHONES ARE THE GAMES.  I RARELY SEE CHILDREN RIDING THEIR BIKES ANY MORE.  MY HOPES FOR YOUNG CHILDREN WITH REGARDS TO PLAY IS SOMEONE IS PLACED IN THEIR LIFE THAT WILL HELP THEM LEARN AND PLAY THE GAMES I DID WHEN I WAS YOUNGER.

I REGARD THE ROLE OF PLAY THOUGHOUT MY LIFE AS A GOD SENT.  THE ROLE OF PLAY MADE ME WHO I AM TODAY.  I WAS ALLOWED TO PLAY FROM "SUN UP TO SUN DOWN."  THIS WAS ALLOWED MORE BY MY MOTHER THAN MY DAD.  HOWEVER, AS LONG AS OUR CHORES AND HOMEWORK WAS FINISHED WE COULD PLAY AS LONG AS WE WANTED.  THIS WENT ON THROUGH THE WEEK, WEEKENDS, AND ALL SUMMER.  I BELIEVE THAT EARLY LEARNING OF CARING FOR MY DOLLS AND TAKING CARE OF THE HOUSE HAS HELPED ME BECOME A GOOD MOTHER AND A GOOD CARETAKER OF MY HOME.  I WAS RECOMMENDED BY MY MOM'S FRIENDS TO BABY SIT THEIR OTHER FRIENDS KIDS.  I BELIEVE I BECAME AN EDUCATOR BECAUSE OF MY BACKGROUND OF NATURING CHILDREN AND BEING ALLOWED THE TIME IT TOOK TO PLAY.  I REALLY THOUGHT I WAS GREAT AT KEEPING HOUSE AND CHILDREN.  I DO BELIEVE I HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO HELP CHILDREN BE SUCCESSFUL AT PLAY AND ACADEMICS.  I BELIEVE I AM ACCOMPLISHING THIS TASK THROUGHOUT ADULTHOOD AS A TEACHER.

3 comments:

  1. I really appreciate your discussion around the things you used to play with. Like you, I spent much of my time playing with pots and pans, plastic dishes and dress up clothes. These very same things are the things that many parents pass up in the toy store so they can buy the electronic toys that promise, "increased intellectual abilities" and programs that allow our babies to "learn to read" before they can even walk. So many parents buy in to the marketing strategies, yet we lack the resources to market the tupperware from our bottom cupboard.

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  2. Audrey,

    I continue to love your blogs! The quotes that you picked out were amazing. "I WILL NOT PLAY TUG O'WAR. I'D RATHER PLAY HUG O' WAR." I love that line of the quote by Shel Silverstein. I used to play with pots and pans as well. My mom used to hand me a wooden spoon while she was cooking and I would bang on the pots and pans creating what I thought was awesome music. As I continue to read through everybody's blog, I can see that everybody had a pretty charmed childhood. It saddens me to think how technology has replaced imagination in young children's lives. As Stuart Brown M.D., who is a Contemporary American psychiatrist, says, "Play energizes us and enlivens us. It eases our burdens. It renews our natural sense of optimism and opens us up to new possibilities." Great blog Audrey!

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  3. Thanks, Nicole & Stacy for your comment and your post on your blog! Both are you are so correct in how parents have to carry the responsibility of not encouraging play. Opportunities for memories and learning are being lost due to an increase of technology. My prayer for all children is for anyone that enters their life will encourage good all fashion play.

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